What truly makes us happy?  Is it our spiritualityIs it our relationship with family and friendsIs it having a rewarding careerIs it travelIs it a day of shopping? Is it service to others? Perhaps even more importantly, how do we define happiness?  How do we maintain happiness?  For me, good mental health has always been about understanding what makes me happy and, even more importantly, what doesn't make me happy.  I believe to function to your highest potential in this chaotic world, you have to be laser focused on understanding, experiencing and acquiring the things that truly make you happy.  While this sounds simple, it can be very difficult as working, busy adults to take the time to stop and think about these important questions.  Am I living my best life?  Do I surround myself with the right people? Am I in touch with my spirituality?  Do I engage in activities that bring me joy?  Am I in relationships that bring me peace and fulfillment?  Again, as busy people, we can often go through the motions in life, without really stopping and thinking about the deeper issues that will have an impact on our mental health.  I sincerely hope that as our society (hopefully) starts to recover from COVID and open back up, you're able to venture out and (safely) enjoy this beautiful Summer.   This is an excellent time to focus on those important mental health questions and making any changes that are needed to keep your mental health on track.  If you're not able to get your mental health on track, please seek help, and know that GOD is in control!
XOXO - Tan




The UnFrumpyMommy is Now Live on YouTube!

We all know that part of maintaining good mental health is having a good time in fellowship with friends and family.  Since the UnFrumpyMommy YouTube channel has started to go live on YouTube weekly, we've had a wonderful time hanging out with all of you in real-time!  If you haven't checked out one of the UnFrumpyMommy's live videos, be sure you're subscribed to her YouTube channel and signed up to receive notifications.   So far, we've done live broadcasts from Disney, Tan's kitchen, Stone Mountain and Buckhead Village in Atlanta - and you never know where we'll pop up next!  We've got some exciting locations planned.  Here are just a few folks that have participated in the previous lives.  We've had soooooo much fun hanging out with you all in these lives, and the live comments have been truly hilarious 😂😂😂.  

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Kim Hagens
Angela Gia'Shari
Shantrel Miller
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CeCe Davis
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Jennifer Jones


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LaVerne Jackson
Chanda Nelson
Dianne Greer
Michelle Way-Houser
Cassandra Johnson
Lady Ne'sha Designs
Crystal Gallman
Judi Smith
Peaceful Livin
Almetra Briggs
Linzy's Lounge
Crystal Gallman
Sharon Washington
Miss Congeniality
Morica Crisler

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TheUnFrumpyMommyStore isn't the only place you can shop with Tan.  Have you checked out Tan's @unfrumpymommy Poshmark closet?  One of the most common questions we receive is Do you have a Poshmark Closet? How can I find your Poshmark Closet? We've got you covered! Check out the links and videos below, and don't forget to subscribe to TheUnfrumpyMommyLife YouTube Channel where you can get the latest news on her upcoming Poshmark sales.  Items tend to go quickly, so definitely follow the UnFrumpyMommy on YouTube AND Poshmark!


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"Service To Others Is The Rent You Pay For Your Room Here On Earth." -Muhammad Ali

There are so many of you that work daily in service to others.  Whether you're a mom, nurse, doctor, teacher, principal, etc.  There are definitely professions where sacrifice is part of your daily routine.  Being that Tan herself is a former educator, we at the UnFrumpyMommyStore can definitely appreciate the sacrifices many of you make on a daily basis.   




 Sometimes it's the "little things" that can brighten your day and bring a smile to your face.  For you budget conscious fashionistas that live for Summer, check-out these flirty dresses, beach and pool looks that are perfect for vacation, al fresco dining and general warm weather shenanigans.

Tan featured this stunning bodysuit / tulle dress combination on her YouTube Channel, TikTok & Instagram and received rave reviews 💕💕💕 from all of you!
This u-neck solid color PRETTYGARDEN swimsuit features a backless, vintage cut for a flattering and unique look.
This Sovoyontee Mesh Maxi Swimsuit Cover is beyond sexy!!
  This stunning LILLUSORY t-shirt dress is perfect for almost any occasion - dress it up with a pair of heels or down with a pair of tennis shoes.
We're absolutely obsessed with this - Women's Short Sleeve Rib Knit T-Shirt Dress from A New Day at Target.  A great alternative to wearing shorts or jeans with your favorite pair of Summer tennis shoes!
This Relipop Women's Floral Jumpsuit is so fun and feminine!



A popular subject on The UnFrumpyMommy YouTube Channel is how vacations and outdoor activities can be some of the best stress relievers.   Tan and her family recently got the best of both worlds (a relaxing beach vacation and outdoor adventures) in their travels to Cancun and XCaret.  We'd definitely recommend a Cancun / XCaret vacation to blow off some steam and live your best life!


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